So......
do you want to know what my kid is doing that is wasting so much darn time and causing him to have to redo his math? You do know that when he redoes an assignment I have to literally sit there AGAIN and make sure he does it correctly, right? Often times that mean an additional hour of school a day. DO you know what I could do in an hour?
Mop the entire downstairs
Clean all the bathrooms
Prep dinner
Dust and vacuum the whole house
Read
SCRAP!
Take a shower, do my hair and put on a full face of make-up.
These are just a few things I could do in an hour. Imagine what a kid could do in an hour? An hour is like a lifetime to them. He could be doing so much, but no. We spend another hour on the flippin' math assignment! Grrrrrrr!!!!! You would think that after...oh I don't know.... SEVEN LONG MONTHS of the same freakin' thing he would get the point, right? Wrong!
I then had to come to the realization that maybe this wasn't a "Kid" thing, but the "teacher" thing. The "teacher" being me! Yeah, this is most likely totally my lack of showing him what is needed.
Have I told you what the problem is? Logan does not show his work when he completes math problems. This leads to him getting answers wrong. I know that some things he does not have to show his work for, but the majority of it he does!
The first thing I did was gave him a blank sheet of paper and told him to write the problem, solve it, and then put the answer in the column on the side that he had numbered. Well, that went over like a fart in church -- not well! I then drew a box for each problem he had to do and he was running out of space. Finally I came up with this:

Graph paper and boxes have done the trick! Hopefully, by the time he starts school in the fall he will know how to set up his paper like this. In the meantime I am making copies of it for him to "SHOW HIS WORK ON!" Heck, I may just send him to school with a bunch of these next year so he does not fail math or drive his teacher nuts!
I'd love to hear why you aren't homeschooling next year. As far as this post is concerned... I do believe 99% of all parents of boys have this issue. Daughters not so much. But boys... holy toledo. I think it has everything to do with do as little work as possible. don't write anything down that's not neccessary as they see it as not essential! It drives me insane too. We've had a lot of issues w/ homework lately and I've lost my mind many times. I end up in tears... they end up in tears its freakin' Mary Poppins around here. If I could afford it I'd hire a tutor to help w/ their homework every singe night. I truly believe it would save a lot of sanity and heartache in this tiny home on Okinawa!
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